Scheana Shay’s Team Reached Out to Me—Here’s Why I Took the Video Down.

Last night, I got a call from Scheana Shay’s manager. Yep, a direct request to take down a TikTok and YouTube video I had posted regarding the bombshell revelations from Scheana’s new memoir — the same memoir where she dropped the cheating truth bomb about her husband, Brock Davies.

Let’s back up for a second…

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💣 The Backstory

On Friday’s Hot Messy Topics, I was joined by the fabulous Thea De Sousa, who shared a little tea from a reliable insider — and this same source was dead on when they said Vanderpump Rules was getting a reboot. So… credibility? ✅

According to Thea’s source, when Scheana allegedly found out about Brock’s affair (which she details herself in the book, btw), she told him:

“Okay, well if you had an affair, I get a hall pass.”

And let’s just say Thea was pretty convinced Scheana used that hall pass. So naturally, I did what I do best — I asked you guys: Do you believe this or not? 🔥

📞 Then the Call Came…

Shortly after, I got a call from Scheana’s manager, kindly but firmly requesting that I take the video down. And listen — out of respect for my friend Scheana, I did. No hesitation.

But here’s the thing…

🤔 What Did You Think Was Going to Happen?

This is where I’m struggling. If you’re going to drop major tea in your memoir — like, relationship-rocking, marriage-in-the-headlines level tea — you know people are going to talk.

You know narratives are going to spin. You know TikTok, Reddit, Twitter, and the entire Bravo universe are going to run wild with it.

So I guess my biggest question is… what did you think was going to happen?

It’s your story. You absolutely have the right to tell it, and protect it. But when it’s out there — especially in a book, in writing, for the world — you can’t unring that bell. And fans are going to speculate. That’s what we do.

❤️ No Hate, Just Real Talk

Look, I have nothing but love for Scheana. She’s been in this game a long time and knows how it works. But I think this moment shows just how real it’s all becoming behind the scenes.

Relationships, reality TV, public perception — it’s all colliding, and the fallout is happening in real-time.

🗣️ What Do You Think?

Do you think Scheana really used that “hall pass”?

Was it fair for her team to ask for the video to be taken down?

And most importantly… what would YOU do in that situation?

You guys always have the best takes — sound off in the comments. 👇

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